Waking in Context

I went to the DOW to work out this evening. Goodness! It felt wonderful. I don't know why I don't go more often; I typically feel so good when I leave. Running and biking have about the same 'good feelings' attached, but lifting makes my whole body feel like it matters.


Today I was biking on the bikes on the side, the ones with the screen that makes it feel more like a video game than a workout. I was on my second cycle and sweating profusely when a 8-11 y/o came in with his college-student mentor [I'm assuming]. They biked next to me for awhile and afterward, when they were wiping down the bikes the college student [who had a deep voice as is] began singing with the song being played overhead. The woman singing was a few octaves above his every day speech, but it was all in good fun. The boy rolled his eyes and had a look that more than suggested that he would rather his mentor not sing. I smiled at them. The singer asked the kid, "what? Am I embarrassing you?" and the kid immediately responded "yes" with a bit good-natured pleading in his voice.

As they went downstairs I found myself smiling. I think I understand why it's often okay to embarrass your kids. It shows them that it doesn't matter; Anyone cool would know his singing was awesome. There's really no need to be embarrassed. Embrace every ridiculous moment. Sure, it's okay to be boring, but a lot less fun.

For the most part I have done a relatively good job of remembering this in the past couple of years, but it takes constant reminders. This was also a great moment because I realized that one of the reasons I am able to appreciate my parents much more now than- say... 10 years ago, is that I get it now. I understand that there is value in doing what makes your heart happy and that talking to people is important. A smile goes a long way and laughter takes away a lot of loneliness.

Yeah, my parents are pretty awesome...
That's obvious without even talking about last weekend's party and their great ushering.



ps. I get to see Schaedig tomorrow for the first time since winter 08 and I am ridiculously excited!!!

West 48

It's been a good weekend. My parents came up and we spent quality time together. They are pretty amazing... and supportive for that matter. Theatre followed by martinis and chicken ceaser pizza at 84 East... Is there a better way to spend a Saturday night? Breakfast at the Windmill, running into Rachel and Sam, and buying new running shoes is the best way to follow-up such a lovely night.

It's a good feeling... now to write a few essays and attempt to study...