Don't smoke, but here's a light.

I'm an enabler.

I was explaining this to my roommates last night and realized that I've been an enabler for over a decade now. Even back in the sixth grade I was the door guard during spin-the-bottle. We ate lunch in our classrooms and so I would stand by the door and let everyone know when the aide was coming and so they needed to stop playing. I didn't necessarily feel moved to participate in the actual kissing, but if that's what people wanted to do, I was more than willing to facilitate it.

Such is life.